Every relationship will get "boring" after you've been together for years. And it does, when we treat it like an activity that we have to just 'do'. Love isn't an activity or just a feeling, it's a commitment, to love every day, emotionally and physically. It is this barrier that when crossed, makes you see the real side of a commitment. You will see sides of the person you love that you never thought existed and you will not always like it. It is difficult. Very difficult, in fact. It's not always laughs, smiles and fun. People tend to quit when it stops being fun and they go look for someone else because "the spark is gone". No, that's not how it works! You want somebody who never gives up on you, loves you unconditionally and then you do the same. Be the change. This isn't some slow romantic flick which isn't real. Love someone when you don't want to; when you don't just have to; when they aren't the easiest to de...
The best revenge is not taking any revenge at all. It's not even holding on to any anger at all. It's moving on with your life. It,s showing them that life is so much better after they're gone. It's easy to blame those that have wronged us for just about everything that is wrong with our life. Most people hold on to the blame because it's easier than moving on. Having an excuse or a story of why they aren't where they want to be gets them sympathy from others. The victim role gives them comfort and it is much easier, than taking responsibility and moving on with their life. However it is not, and will never a happy place to stay. Those who take responsibility for their life and are wanting to move on and put the past behind them are much more likely to gain freedom, success and happiness. Now, it's time to take back the power they have from you, when you are the one suffering long after they are gone. Ask yourself. Who wins if you keep blami...